the optimist

i love to play tricks, h. it's funny to watch other people reaction when they are not expecting what you're doing or saying. it's like taking people to a funeral and then start a party with can can dancers and mandolins.
people often don't like to be surprised this way... one is more used to accept surprises when the result is better that the expected, not the opposite way around. when the outcome is worst people don't call it a surprise... they often call it a disappointment, but it is a surprise just the same.
for me both are surprises. you just don't expect what you're having in the moment and, if you are brave enough to like surprises, you must be prepared to take both...
other thing i also like h, is to say yes and wave no with my head...

b, you just don't stop surprising me!
really h? for good or for bad?
you just surprise me b. you should like both answers the same way